Imagine that you are in a supermarket and you happen to notice a scene between a mother and a child. The mother is angry because the little girl continues to take toys off the shelves and put ... Read More
The Power of Love – The Lessons of Sustained Intimacy
There are many ways to share our love. At different times in our life, we may find that it is right for us to have different kinds of relationships and also multiple romantic partners. However, what ... Read More
The Power of Guilt – Learning to Relate from Freedom rather than Duty and Obligation
Sebastian met Marianne in one of our seminars and they both felt an immediate connection. They began dating and experienced a deeper love connection than either of them had felt in previous ... Read More
Don’t Skip the Tough Stuff: The Danger of Spiritual Bypassing
This is a topic that concerns us a lot in our work at the Learning Love Institute, which we founded [where, how many?] years ago. Many people come to us who are crippled with fear and insecurity, ... Read More
Exploring how we leak our energy and how we can regain our dignity
One of the most important challenges in our journey toward recovering dignity and self-esteem has to do with finding personal empowerment. Most of us, because of the traumas we experienced early in ... Read More
LIVING WITH PASSION – BALANCING ALIVENESS WITH AWARENESS
A woman goes to visit her insurance agent and says, “I would like to collect on my husband’s Morris’ life insurance policy.” “But, madam, your husband is not dead.” “I tell you what, you come to ... Read More
Living in Truth or Living in Fear – How We Betray Ourselves Because of Fear
It is not uncommon that we work with people who, for one reason or another, are not able to live or speak their truth in important situations in their lives. For instance, one person we are working ... Read More
How to Stop Blaming and Complaining
For years, we have used the same person to wash the windows of our house in Sedona. He does a great job when he comes, but about a third of the time, he calls to tell us that he can’t come because he ... Read More
How to be with a Trigger – Coming Back to Center After Being Provoked
One of the most basic aspects of the Learning Love Work is finding how to come back to center after we have been provoked. It’s an essential tool if we choose to embrace life and love fully, since we ... Read More
Growing and Maturing Through Disturbances Finding Inner Peace When Life or Another Provokes Us
One of our deepest challenges is how to handle disturbances. If we choose to open to love and relate deeply, to become vulnerable, if we choose to put our creativity out, to become involved in life, ... Read More